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Patricia Stolfi, 94, of Torrington, passed away peacefully at her home at Keystone Place on March 11, 2026. She was born on October 30, 1931 in Torrington, daughter of the Laura and Richard Carter. Pat was preceded in death by her husband of 65 years Frank Stolfi .
Together, they owned and operated "The Place" for 35 years where they enjoyed many dedicated patrons, good friends, and fond memories.
In addition to her husband, Pat was predeceased by her son David Stolfi, brother Richard Carter, and friend Arlene Soja. She is survived by her daughter Tami Soja and husband Thomas Soja Jr, two grandchildren, Michael Stolfi and Rachel Jajcanin and husband Dario, great-grandchildren Luka Jajcanin and friends Michael and Dyanne Castelli, Deanna and Brian Joyce, and Susan Stolfi and a special friend Pat Kowalchick of Keystone. Thank you to all at Keystone , Visiting Nurse and Hospice and Heaven's Hands for their special care.
Private Services will be held at the convenience of the family. www.phalenfuneral.com
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