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Mercedes R (Duhaylongsod) Howard

January 24, 1943 ~ October 8, 2017 (age 74) 74 Years Old
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A candle was lit by Tasha. Not a day goes by that i dont think of you Mama. on April 18, 2022 2:30 PM
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A candle was lit by i Love and Miss you everyday on September 15, 2020 3:02 PM
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A candle was lit by Natasha Mercedes Tewksbury on May 29, 2020 4:20 PM
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A candle was lit by Lowes employees on October 17, 2017 3:31 PM
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A candle was lit by Commercial Sewing, Inc. on October 17, 2017 3:29 PM
Message from Luella Lake
October 14, 2017 2:25 AM

My Dearest Cousins and Uncle, sorry for your lost of a Greatest Woman ever with such a Colorful Personality and always caring for everyone, making sure to never forget Birthdays and Anniversaries. I Love you Aunty Mercy, I’m going to Miss you telling me how Proud you are of your Family. RIL Aunty Mercy, I will always Love you. I know your with Grandma, Your Sisters and My Brother. Love you all.
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A candle was lit by Luella and Lonnie Lake on October 14, 2017 2:04 AM
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A candle was lit by Lucille and Myles Oga on October 14, 2017 2:02 AM
Message from Les Munson
October 13, 2017 8:15 PM

Dear Rich, Maxine and Family:

I am so sorry to learn of Mercedes' passing. She was a lovely lady and though we only would get together once a year, we had a terrific time visiting and catching up. She was an inspiration to me and I will miss her very much. My condolences to you all at this difficult time.
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A candle was lit by Les Munson on October 13, 2017 8:10 PM
Message from Kristie Samson-Greene
October 13, 2017 7:34 PM

Mahalo Cousin Mercy for your many cards and phone calls throughout the years. Your love and aloha spirit lives within us. You will always be in my heart and mind. Aloha for now.❤️❤️❤️😀😀😀
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A candle was lit by Warren & Kristie Samson-Greene on October 13, 2017 7:27 PM
Message from Ms. Carole Ann Robinson II
October 13, 2017 6:01 AM

I'm so sorry for your loss.
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A candle was lit by JOANN (Killiany) Tronina on October 12, 2017 11:19 PM
To Paulette : I know in your heart you will always cherish your mom. You did a great job taken her places and enjoy life with her. Your mom put love ,joy,&courage in all of you. Keep her spirit alive and keep her memories always close to you. She was a great lady. I will always keep your mom in my heart to and her love that she had for me too. She was very special and dear to me. I loved her so much. My parents thought the world of her &Richard too. We were all blessed to have great parents. Forever your Sister always. Love Jojo
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A candle was lit by Kimberly Charette and Bill charette and kids too on October 12, 2017 10:40 PM
Message from Christine & Tom Mangan
October 12, 2017 9:26 PM

So sorry for your loss. It was my pleasure to know you mom. Enjoyed working with her driving the bus and the fun times we had. She will be greatly missed by all.
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A candle was lit by Christine &Tom Mangan on October 12, 2017 9:19 PM
Message from Ted & Sharon Cremasco
October 12, 2017 7:45 PM

Heartfelt sympathy Rich and all the family. A wonderful legacy she leaves to all who had the privilege of knowing her! I will miss that warm smile and great personality. She lit up a room! RIP Mercie!!
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A candle was lit by Gary & Debby B on October 12, 2017 6:37 PM
Message from Gary & Debby
October 12, 2017 6:36 PM

We are so sorry for your loss.
prayers are sent to you and all the family.
love ya girlfriend's.
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A candle was lit by Dan Solis on October 12, 2017 4:28 PM
Dana and Paulette, Sorry for your loss. Now that mom, is in heaven, there will be a very special angel watching over you. Your in my prayers.. Dan
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A candle was lit by Justus, I Love You Mama on October 12, 2017 11:44 AM
Message from Rhoda M Duhaylongsod
October 11, 2017 11:43 PM

Richard , no words can describe how beautiful Mercy is inside and out. All the memories will be cherished. I apologize for not being there on her day to rest. I will be there in sprit. Love you all. Hug the children for me.
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A candle was lit by Rhoda Duhaylongsod on October 11, 2017 11:35 PM
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A candle was lit by Ashley(Tronina)Hesse &Taryn(Tronina)Whitford on October 11, 2017 8:05 PM
To Richard & All family members: To paulette: We both send our sympathy to you all. She was a wonderful lady. She will be very missed. From Ashley & Taryn (Tronina )
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A candle was lit by Ashley(Tronina)Hesse &Taryn(Tronina)Whitford on October 11, 2017 7:58 PM
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A MONET'S GARDEN TABLE BASKET was sent on October 11, 2017

our deepest sympathy our hearts and prayers are with you all. Lots of love from your N.H. Families. Beverly Patten, Tammy & Ed Crease and Family, Deb & John Pelkey and Family.

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A candle was lit by JOANN (Killiany) Tronina on October 11, 2017 7:57 PM
To Paulette ,Dana, Lorna, Russel, Georgina, Maxine, Roxanne: I am so sorry for the loss of your Mother. She was truely a wonderful mother to you All. Her life was good full of fun , love, laughter's. She was and always will be a remarkable woman. She will be miss by all . love to all. Love JoAnn K. T.
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A candle was lit by JOANN (Killiany) Tronina on October 11, 2017 7:45 PM
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A candle was lit by JOANN (Killiany) Tronina &Steven Tronina on October 11, 2017 7:44 PM
To Richard : We are sorry for your lose she was wonderful and beautiful wife & mother. Her love for All is so remarkable. Her wonderful singing touch us all. Our prayers & thoughts are with you always . We will keep her in our hearts forever. We will miss her. Love JoAnn & Steven Tronina
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A candle was lit by JOANN (Killiany) Tronina on October 11, 2017 7:34 PM
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A candle was lit by Susan Badjar-Leone on October 11, 2017 7:30 PM
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A candle was lit by lisa namey on October 11, 2017 6:04 PM
Message from Anthony sager
October 11, 2017 5:22 PM

R.i.p. mercy,my condolences to Howard,Paulette,Rocky,Georgie, and Dana and to the entire family gby mercy !!
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A candle was lit by Anthony sager on October 11, 2017 5:13 PM
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A SOFT AND SWEET MEMORIES    STANDING SPRAY was sent on October 11, 2017

Beloved Sister Mercy. Until We Meet Again. Aloha, Lelene Duhaylongsod-Bay and Ohana

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A candle was lit by Mark, Taffie Ann, Penny and Charl on October 11, 2017 12:28 PM
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Uncle Mark myself and your cousins send our deepest condolences. Your Mama was a beautiful person and left her legacy in you. Please know she is still with you and always will be! We pray that God will wrap his loving arms around you and give you strength and most importantly peace.
Love you always!
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A candle was lit by Mark and Taffie Ann Dudley & daughters on October 11, 2017 12:19 PM
Message from Debra & Jim
October 11, 2017 10:54 AM

We always loved seeing her st family functions. That radiant smile and beautiful voice. She was a joy to be with. She will be greatly missed by many. Debra (Cummings) and Jim Waldorf
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A candle was lit by Kathy and Russ on October 11, 2017 8:43 AM
Dana,Paulette and Georgey,
Russ and I are sending our thoughts and prayers, to you all. Keep her memories close to your hearts, as you move forward and forever. Our love to all... Russ and Kathy.

Message from carol nemcik
October 11, 2017 8:06 AM

Georgie, Maxine + family, Your mother was a wonderful lady with a great sense of
humor. She always had a smile on her face especially when surrounded by her
lovely family. My deepest sympathy to the family . Carol
Message from Barbara Kilmer
October 11, 2017 5:39 AM

Sad to hear the passing of Mercy! I remember her bringing the girls to the shop(Aerospace)and to shop parties and they all would sing and dance!!!
Mercy had a great spirit and kind heart!!
Heaven now has one more true Angel!!
My thoughts and prayers are with you all!
Barb Kilmer
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A candle was lit by Laurie G. on October 11, 2017 12:18 AM
Paulette & Dana,
I'm so sorry for the loss of your Mom, thinking of you both. Sending prayers to you and your family.
Message from Donna Prout
October 10, 2017 11:34 PM

Georgie snd Maxine, I was so sorry to hear about your mom's passing. I remember her singing and her love of music. You are in my thoughts and prayers
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A candle was lit by your daughter on October 10, 2017 11:22 PM
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A candle was lit by Dorean Duhaylongsod on October 10, 2017 11:21 PM
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A candle was lit by Van and Donna Vanderpoel on October 10, 2017 11:16 PM
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A candle was lit by Laurence Florio SR on October 10, 2017 11:13 PM
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A candle was lit by Sandy Nelson on October 10, 2017 9:54 PM
Gee I am so very saddened to hear about your Mother’s passing. Keeping you & your entire family close to my heart and in my Prayers 🙏
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A candle was lit by Sandy & Dave Nelson on October 10, 2017 9:48 PM
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A candle was lit by Sue, Art and Steven Huxley on October 10, 2017 8:43 PM
Words cannot express the sadness we feel in the passing your Mom and Grandmother, I loved her like a second Mom ! I will be there for you Paulette and family as my heart has always been! Heaven now has a great angel ! I just am beyond words God be with you all ! RIP Merci !

Love Sue, Art and Steve Huxley
Message from Linda Galinski
October 10, 2017 8:37 PM

Tasha ,Georgie and family I'm very sorry for your loss for the short time I got to know your grandmother, mom she was an amazing woman and I see where you guys get it from . Her legacy will live on three beautiful girls , she may be gone but she'll never be forgotten she will always be in everybody's hearts
Message from Tammy Anderson
October 10, 2017 7:54 PM

Maxine and Family;
My deepest sympathies for the family at this time. May you find comfort in the knowledge that she is in the Lords arms, never to suffer here again.
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A candle was lit by Chanda Connole on October 10, 2017 7:04 PM
To the entire Ohana, I am so very sorry for your loss.. I know Aunty Mercy was the back bone to your amazing family. Sending much love, light and aloha to you all.

Aunty Mercy, You will be greatly missed. I have many fond memories growing up of you, my mom and all us kids. When you get to heaven give mommy my love and keep her inline..
Love & Aloha,
Chanda
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A candle was lit by Chanda Connole & Ohana on October 10, 2017 6:52 PM
Message from The Calverley Family
October 10, 2017 5:58 PM

Her spirit , talents and love of music will leave a lasting memory on everyone fortunate enough to have been in her presence. May God bless her and her family. Prayers and love from all of us.
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A candle was lit by your daughter on October 10, 2017 5:34 PM
Amazing and contagious was her smile and personality, through any situation she always continued with a positive outlook and a happy disposition, always.
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A candle was lit by Brian and Irene Kennedy on October 10, 2017 5:33 PM
Message from Gezelle guillard
October 10, 2017 3:58 PM

I would first and foremost would like to send my condolences.. I remember when I met mama. She was a Beautiful soul and excepted me as family. She had a contagious smile and laugh!!! She will be truly missed.. May God strengthen the family. Thru this hard time. Love you all..... Rest in peace Mrs Mercedes.
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A candle was lit by Guillard family on October 10, 2017 3:53 PM
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A candle was lit by Antoinette Millette on October 10, 2017 3:41 PM
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A candle was lit by Bob and Barbara Millette on October 10, 2017 3:28 PM
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A candle was lit by Donna Gobin on October 10, 2017 3:22 PM
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